I would definitely have to say that depended upon the group I am with at the time, I do think that my style of communication reflects that group, and does change based on the group. And I would think that for most people this is probably true, and that is because we communicate differently based on the kinds of relationships we share.
In reflecting on my own relationships, both personally and professionally, I do think that my communication style changes depending on what group I might be with at that particular time. For example, with my family I share more intimate and personal relationships, compared to my relationships at work with my co-workers and colleagues who which I share a some what lesser intimate relationship. So it is because of this differences in relationships, that I do feel that our communication styles change based on the people or the groups of people we are associating with at that time.
But still no matter what group of people you are associating with, or what communication style you are using at the time, one thing should remain true. And that truth is the importance of using positive and effective communication at all times. The kind of communication that involves good listening skills, as well as a great amount of respect and consideration for another persons point of view, and personal perspective. "Effective listening is challenging, in part, because people often are more focused on what they're saying than on what they're hearing in return" (O'Hair, 2011).
In reflecting on what I have learned these week, in regards to effective communication, there are three strategies that definitely stand out for me, both personally and professionally. I also think these three strategies will help me to communicate more positively and effectively no matter who the people, or group of people I am communicating with at the time. My first strategy would be to always be respectful and courteous when dealing with another persons perspective and cultural difference. My second strategy would be to always no matter what have good listening skills. And finally my third and final strategy would be to always follow the Platinum rule. And that is because it is this rule that can help us to not only be more aware of another persons feelings, but also how to respond to those feelings through our own actions and behaviors. "The goal, according to Bennett, is to attempt to think and feel what another person thinks and feels and to go beyond that by taking positive action toward others in response to your empathic feelings" (Beebe, 2011).
In conclusion I really feel like I have gained a greater understanding and perspective, in regards to positive and effective communication skills. And also the importance of taking the time to be more aware of my own skills and how to be a more positive and effective communicator, no matter who I am communicating with or what relationship we share.
References:
O'Hair, D., Friedrich, G. W., & Dixon, L. D. (2011). Strategic communication in business and the professions. Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
In reflecting on my own relationships, both personally and professionally, I do think that my communication style changes depending on what group I might be with at that particular time. For example, with my family I share more intimate and personal relationships, compared to my relationships at work with my co-workers and colleagues who which I share a some what lesser intimate relationship. So it is because of this differences in relationships, that I do feel that our communication styles change based on the people or the groups of people we are associating with at that time.
But still no matter what group of people you are associating with, or what communication style you are using at the time, one thing should remain true. And that truth is the importance of using positive and effective communication at all times. The kind of communication that involves good listening skills, as well as a great amount of respect and consideration for another persons point of view, and personal perspective. "Effective listening is challenging, in part, because people often are more focused on what they're saying than on what they're hearing in return" (O'Hair, 2011).
In reflecting on what I have learned these week, in regards to effective communication, there are three strategies that definitely stand out for me, both personally and professionally. I also think these three strategies will help me to communicate more positively and effectively no matter who the people, or group of people I am communicating with at the time. My first strategy would be to always be respectful and courteous when dealing with another persons perspective and cultural difference. My second strategy would be to always no matter what have good listening skills. And finally my third and final strategy would be to always follow the Platinum rule. And that is because it is this rule that can help us to not only be more aware of another persons feelings, but also how to respond to those feelings through our own actions and behaviors. "The goal, according to Bennett, is to attempt to think and feel what another person thinks and feels and to go beyond that by taking positive action toward others in response to your empathic feelings" (Beebe, 2011).
In conclusion I really feel like I have gained a greater understanding and perspective, in regards to positive and effective communication skills. And also the importance of taking the time to be more aware of my own skills and how to be a more positive and effective communicator, no matter who I am communicating with or what relationship we share.
References:
O'Hair, D., Friedrich, G. W., & Dixon, L. D. (2011). Strategic communication in business and the professions. Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
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